Baby sleep, especially in the early days, is one of the most concerning topics for new mothers. Some mothers struggle with their infant's irregular sleep patterns and nighttime awakenings. In this guide, I'll provide practical tips to help mothers establish a bedtime routine for their infant, ensuring both mother and baby enjoy sufficient and comfortable sleep.
It's essential to be realistic and not attempt to establish a sleep routine for a newborn in the first few days after birth. During this time, the mother is still recovering from childbirth, and both mother and baby are adapting to breastfeeding. However, the mother must be aware of essential tips for infant sleep training before giving birth to avoid difficulties in sleep training later on.
It's essential to note that sleep training does not necessarily mean the child will sleep through the night without waking up. Babies may wake up for various reasons such as hunger, feeling cold or hot, colic, or discomfort. Sleep training involves getting the child accustomed to falling asleep independently, placing them in their crib or designated sleeping area when they are drowsy, and allowing them to doze off without assistance from parents or feeding. Successful sleep training enables the child to return to sleep quickly, even if they wake up at night.
It's crucial to ensure the baby breastfeeds correctly, with the breast latched on properly. Small, frequent feedings should be avoided, and the baby should be satisfied after each feeding, allowing the breast to empty.
Sunlight plays a significant role in the health of infants, helping regulate hormones and promoting healthy sleep.
Cluster feeding, where the baby feeds closely spaced in the evening, can help the baby sleep for more extended periods at night.
The baby's sleeping room should resemble the womb environment, being quiet, at an appropriate temperature, and dark. White noise, such as a dedicated baby white noise machine or a fan, can be used.
One common mistake in establishing a bedtime routine is exposing the baby to screens before sleep. Transitioning the baby to the sleeping room half an hour before bedtime with dim lights is recommended, creating a calm environment.
Having a daily bedtime routine prepares the baby for sleep. This can include informing the baby at the same time each day that it's time to sleep, changing diapers, closing curtains, and singing a lullaby. The routine doesn't need to be lengthy, avoiding prolonged activities.
It's essential to place the baby in the crib or designated sleeping area while they are still awake but drowsy, which is better than putting them down after falling asleep completely.
One common mistake is immediately picking up the baby when they wake up at night. If the baby is not crying or in pain, gentle patting and talking to the baby while in the crib may be sufficient.
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question. Some babies may need nighttime breastfeeding because they did not consume enough during the day or require more milk due to a growth spurt.
In the first few weeks after birth, the baby must breastfeed every three hours, even if it requires waking the baby up at night. If the baby is not gaining weight normally, more frequent feedings may be necessary. However, if the baby is gaining weight appropriately and is breastfeeding eight or more times during the day, it may be unnecessary to wake them up for nighttime feeding.
Sleeping patterns for infants are complex and depend on various factors. Following the above tips can make infant sleep less complicated and stressful for both parents and baby.